Wednesday, April 22, 2009

Out of the mouth of 5th graders...

*Our economy is bad because of them rich people in California.
*We should be called "children of the nose" because we are nosey.
*Miss Dancy! Where did you get that ring? (They are very observant of my hands!!!- I was wearing a my grandmother's thin gold/diamond wedding band on my RIGHT hand) You have so many rings- I can't keep them straight! You aren't getting married are you?
*Miss Dancy! Do you know who Bathsheba is? 
*Are you a cusser Miss Dancy? You don't look like a cusser.
*Did you ever had a mullet?

Monday, April 20, 2009

Happy Birthday Alison and Charlie!

Alison!



Corey and Tim Davis' Wedding


Alison's first trip to TN to see me graduate from Lee University. One week later she graduated from UNC. One month later she married my brother.
I was honored to stand as a bridesmaid. I know I hideously embarrassed Ty as I cried - more like boo hooed!

Enjoying a bite of snow cream! (please excuse the lack of makeup)
Caving a Tarheel pumpkin!
Thanksgiving 2006
Almost 7 years ago (wow- can't believe its been that long) I gained a true friend who would eventually become my sister-in-law. Our situation is unique because our families are interconnected. Mom grew up with Alison's parents. Alison's grandparents lived literally a house down from m y grandparents. Our grandparents belong to the same church. Our grandparents play cards together and have camped and traveled together for years. I knew from the beginning
that Alison was a keeper. There was something unique and genuine about her. She was the fourth and last girl my brother brought home. I knew immediately she was the one he would one day marry. I knew she was more than a brother's girlfriend- her motives were pure. She was the first and only
girl I approved of for my brother- we all know how picky sisters can be! I feel blessed daily for the relationship Alison an d I share. I appreciate the openness we share. I love our mutual obsession with I Love Lucy. I love walking the dogs with her. I love shopping with her- although she is a much dedicated shopper than I. I love our heart to heart talks. I love her sincerity. I ad
mire her organizational skills, healthy lifestyle, morals, standards and views. There's nothing I don't like about her. If anything I want to be more like her. So today I celebrate Alison's birthday-
happy quarter of a century. I look forward to sharing many more birthdays.


CHARLIE!


Charlie thought Barley was his daddy!

Literally!


First night home!


Yep! I sure did dress him up as a Pumpkin for Halloween!

and a spider! HA!

He went to Pet Smart puppy school and graduated! Not that it did any good!

He and Barley are BFF!
First Christmas!


2 summers ago- Tyler persuaded me to adopt a puppy from Craigslist. I had just completed my first successful year of teaching. Tyler had adopted a beagle/bassett hound mix a year before and convinced me I needed one. It took very little twisting Dad's arms to get him to drive me to Winston Salem to meet my new little friend. Before I saw him I named him Charlie- to match Tyler's dog's name Barley. Ironically the man I got Charlie from told me his birthday was April 21st which happens to be Alison's! Happy 2nd birthday Charlie!

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

Spring! A love/hate relationship!

Hate: - blankets of pollen that aggravate my pour allergies
           - one day the sun is shining bright at 70 degrees, the next day its overcast and in the 50s
           -"Springing" forward an hour and losing an hour of sleep

Love: - Easter
      
     -beautiful spring flowers
           -new life (baby birds, baby chicks)
                
  -lush fresh green grass
          
 -Easter Candy
           
    -daylight lasts a little longer 
           -Spring Break ( a reprieve from my students)

Sunday, April 12, 2009

Jesus


I know! I know! You probably had to do a double take! I got a tattoo today- it is simply "Jesus" in Chinese Characters. 

I always said I would NEVER get a tattoo. Well my fellow teacher Amy randomly brought up the subject of tattoos as we were getting in our daily walk one recent recess. I automatically said, "You're CRAZY!""I would NEVER do such a thing!" Well NEVER SAY NEVER! Of course I started thinking about it! What would I get, where would put it? If I was going to have something on my body for the rest of my life- it had have some significance! By nature I am a conservative person- I didn't want anything flashy and I didn't want to put it somewhere were it would draw a lot of attention. After very little research and consideration I came up with the idea you see on my ankle.  I am going to China on my first mission trip in June. I wanted it on my foot because its  a descreat place and I love this scripture: Isaiah 52:7 "How beautiful are the feet of those who bring good news, proclaim peace, bring glad tidings of good things, proclaim salvation, and proclaim to Zion, " Your God reigns". I had it done today on Easter Sunday- the day we celebrate our risen Lord. Call me cheesy-- but that's my story! Don't worry I've had my fix- I'm not the typical tattoo who gets addicted! 

HE LIVES!

My favorite Easter song! He Lives

Saturday, April 11, 2009

Don't ruffle the hen's feathers!

For as long as I can remember I have just known that I would one day become a teacher- following in my mother's footsteps. How often she told me "teaching is just in your blood...". Not to mention a majority of the women I looked to as mentors, Angie, Shannon, Traci and Ashlyn, to name a few, were teacher themselves. Then of course the teachers that impacted my life-- Mrs. Roberts (who happens to be one of my mother's best friends to this day) in 3rd grade, Mrs. McCombs in 7th and Mr. Parker in 8th and 9th grades- had a huge impact on my life as well.

Teaching is more than just my job- its my life! I am a teacher outside of my 5th grade classroom. I am a teacher to the children I babysit. I am a (fill-in) teacher to the precious children in my church's children ministry. I am also a teacher to those around me sometimes when I don't even know it. (Cocky or not) I take great pride and responsibility in my role as teacher for not everyone is called to be a teacher. I was just lucky enough to have it come naturally.

I have a lot invested in my teaching and in my students. I take great offense to smart remarks or uneducated comments from those outside the teaching world. In case you haven't noticed.... the classroom has changed a lot over the years, teaching is not what it used to be!

Perhaps the comment that irks me the most is "Must be nice to have Spring Break and a summer off." Excuse me, you work a 3 day week and are off 4 ALL year long! Trust me, I've earned my breaks!

"You're lucky. You work easy hours and get off early." Excuse me, have you seen the load of work brought home that is never paid for. If I didn't bring it home I'd stay at school all hours of the night or I'd never have anything done.

"Oh, my! How do you handle children like that." Kind of like the principle where you can dis your annoying sibling 24/7, but somebody else does it and they've crossed the line. I know that each of my students are uniquely different. Sometimes(ok most of the time) they drive me besirk and I want nothing more than to move them on- yet in my heart of hearts I truly do care about each and everyone of them and want nothing more than for them to suceed in and out of school.

"Teachers give too much homework." You just made a biased assumption! I don't give a lot of homework. If I do give homework it may be a small Math assignment or Spelling (that they have a week to complete)- instead of homework I give "contract work"- students get 4 assignments (one from each subject) that they have from Monday - Friday to complete. I use contract work as a "filler" for those students who always finish early they have no excuse to goof off- they constantly have something to work on. I always try to see both sides of the picture when it comes to giving homework. If only you outsiders felt the pressure of accountability testing! They only way to adequately cover and remediate is to have some homework!

Wednesday, April 8, 2009

Dogwood Legend

The devotional I shared tonight: 
       

           
       An old and beautiful legend has it that, at the time of the crucifixion, the dogwood was comparable in size to the oak tree and other monarchs of the forest. Because of its firmness and strength it was selected as the timber for the cross, but to be put to such a cruel use greatly distressed the tree. Sensing this, the crucified Jesus in his gentle pity for the sorrow and suffering of all said to it: "Because of your sorrow and pity for My sufferings, never again will the dogwood tree grow large enough to be used as a gibbet. Henceforth it will be slender, bent and twisted and its blossoms will be in the form of a cross -- two long and two short petals. In the center of the outer edge of each petal there will be nail prints -- brown with rust and stained with red -- and in the center of the flower will be a crown of thorns, and all who see this will remember."


Mid-Week Funnies (and things that brought a smile to my face)

At the lunch table, "Miss Dancy, I think I'm starting puberty." .... (me) "Yes you are, but that's not appropriate talk at the lunch table." 

"Miss Dancy I was tardy this morning because my brother and I were in cahoots with each other."

One of my die-hard Duke fans of a student brought me a Carolina NACC 2009 championship shirt!

There is a new Churches Chicken in town- went for dinner "sorry we're closed for 2 hours, we've ran out of chicken"....

Sunday, April 5, 2009



GOD's favorite color is Carolina Blue!